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| How to extend your relationship? |
Hello dear disciple, health news to come ciddiyetsizliğe ziyaretçilerim.Malum health is an important issue and we can learn more about the health of people in the health research as a result of çalışıyoruz.Hergün prepared to do our best for health news sizlerele trying to share.
I think that the issue today, women's issues would be one of the visitors' attention to the relationship aday.Aslında poured more men than by the love affair değil.Ben sanılsada not the case, and each must describe as a sense of the world's most beautiful yaşamalıdır.Ama unrequited hate to bother too much I do not recommend acıtabiliyor. This is how the health news of the extended duration of the relationship between couples and how to adapt sağlanır.Bunun earlier articles, mental health have to do to say, when there is an impact on health to at least the body of a man's health status belirtmiştik.İnanın me how bad the relationship is ending I think I'll be shining from survivors that I know myself am one of the following legends:) Health is a love affair in our news gelicek time if we look at how uzatabiliyoruz dear visitor.
What to do for a happy relationship?
Psychologies Magazine psikiyatlara compiled on the basis of the secret of a long and happy relationship 6. Here's the long term if you want a relationship, you need to do:
- The need to belong: Relationship therapist Robert Neuburg, "emotional reasons, not because of the need to belong to a long-term relationship we want," he says. A group of people from time to time to another, somewhere, wants to belong to something. Relationships take longer to feel such a need in itself.
- Shared pleasures: the pleasures of the common non-psychological research that shows that couples in long-lasting relationships.
- Their unique rituals: a double special, distinctive rituals of each other must be from other friends. Be a pair of custom, requires the common shares. To do this, go to the movies every Saturday, for example, can spend a vacation in the same place every year, on Sundays you can go to the same restaurant for dinner. You both must have the special rituals.
- Get to know each other's environment: the first indicator of adherence to introduce your beloved close to your environment.
- Dear to worry about: narsizmi to eat on both sides, and dreams of her lover, gerçidiği changes, should engage closely what is happening in his life.
- How to ask Sevgilinle: Couples often are the "how" they neglect to ask. Lover "was like" You ask, how he feels really be concerned.
Why fall in love?
Professor of Psychiatry love Michel Reynaud says? "Son of Man and the desperate need of being connected to another program. Merger with one of the physical pleasure to hear, we need to feel safe in ourselves. All of these are beginning to testosterone. This hormone is
sexual intercourse
desire of the hormone secretion
is causing.
In addition, the hormone of love, known as endorphins and oxytocin, the hormone secreted from orgasm creates feelings of happiness in love pushing people. "
French psychiatrist Maria-Laure Colonna argues that if more than one game is completely unconscious. According to him Colonna'ya human smell, touch, look like a child to remain with any detail reminiscent of the excitement of people fall in love.
Why couples fight?
British Psychiatrist Dr David Burns "Feeling Good Together," his latest book, why couples fight their new poll. According to Burns because of quarrels between couples: egos! Burns said that there were disputes the cause of 10:
- Power and control: have power over other people want to be a part of human nature. To avoid conflicts in the relationship instead of trying to control your beloved, try to put yourself in his place.
- Self-blame: If you shoulder the blame in the relationship, and after a period of energy depletion causes a loss of pleasure from intercourse.
- Revenge: the feeling of revenge not only magnifies the problem.
- Justice and fairness: Sinirlendiğinizde, "It's not fair", "I did not deserve this," to use phrases such as, you yourself just düşündürtür is justified and will damage the relationship. Discussions of "rights" you have to admit that there is nothing to do la.
- Narsistlik: törpülemeli narcissistic side in the right and opposite you must learn to give.
- Race: Everybody wants to win but I only fight to keep alive the feeling of winning benefits. Relationship should not be winners and losers.
- Anger: Anger There are three ways of striking out. The first is a struggle to make way for the active, the second is to avoid confrontation, and thirdly, to show respect on the attacker, trying to be calm. Sinirlendirdiğinde you to your lover, try to understand what she was saying for 30 seconds, 30 seconds later in the show that you understand him by repeating to him what they say. This enables you to understand each other.
- Charge: this is a problem just do not think that's your fault.
- Tagging: lover, "You tell me", "You are like," he etiketlemeyin.
- Shame: we love someone does not want to see our mistakes and duvarlarımızı eg. But in fact we are the most powerful of all zaafiyetlerimizi karşımızdakinin moment he knew.
The relationship is at the end of the road?
Relationship and marriage counseling with the Gottman Institute research found that the attitude of the 4 would be the end of a relationship. That would be the end of a relationship 96 percent of the 4 attitude:
- Excessive criticism: If you have already begun to criticize your beloved very heavy, is rings the bells of danger for your relationship.
- Humiliation: If you have already begun to degrade the beloved of respect for this relationship to end.
- Defense: Always be defensive, to believe the person was right, and closes the communication paths. Depletion of communication kills relationships.
- Playing the Victim: Always show yourself as the victim, the person opposite foul out.
